CHAPTER 01

Have you ever felt that your efforts are not enough for a person? Have you ever felt that you are not mattered, and whatever you offer, you don't get the same in return? Ever felt the need to STOP. 

But when do you actually stop? That is the real question, which I want to answer today. 

Sometimes its one's nature to be willing to do anytjing for others. When you are in that deep and strong love or friendship, when you can't see anything but that person in your life. I know that feeling, because main bhi unhi logon me aati hu. Kuch log easily logon ko chood nahi paate, kyuki unhe pata hai woh feeling. Unhe pata hai ki jabh koi insaan jaata hai toh kaisa lagta hai. Jabh woh peeche reh jaate hai aur woh insaan chala jaata hai humesha ke liye. Par life me jitna bhi try karlo bunny, kuch na kuch toh chootega hi. Hum sabh yahi sochte hai ki hum sabh woh hasil kar sakte hai aur woh sabh logon ke sath reh sakte hai jiske sath hum rehna chahte hai. Par kya yeh sach me hota hai? Log bahut badi badi baatien karte hai ki, nothing is impossible, but that's not true. There are many things that are beyond our imagination and destiny. Kuch log humare liye bus ek phase ke liye hote hai, purri zindagi ke liye nahi. Aur chahe hum jitna marzi sochte rahe, ki woh insaan wapis aa jaeyga aur usse humari importance samajh aa jaegi, but essa kabhi nahi hota. 

Toh sawal yeh hai ki, hume kabh ruk jaana chahiye, aur apne aap ko kabh choose karna chahiye? Agar dil se jawab du, toh kabhi nahi. Kabhi bhi apne aap ko mat chunna. Kyuki iss dil ka kya fyada jo kisi aur ke liye kuch kare hi na. Iss dil ka itne emotions lekar ghoomne ka kya fyada agar woh kisi ke liye kuch kare hi na. Toh agar dil se poochu toh humesha uss insaan ko chunna, jisse tum rakhna chahte ho apni life me. Shri Krishna ne kahan hai, ki prem ka arth kabhi swarth hai hi nahi, prem toh bus kiya jaata hai. Toh prem karo parth. 

Par agar dimaag se poochu toh woh kahega ki apne aap ko chunna bahut zaroori hai. Kabhi kabar apko uss insaan ko aur uss rishte ko chood kar dekhna chahiye, kyuki iss se apko apni zaroorat pata chalti hai uss insaan ki life me. Kya woh vapis aate hai? Kya woh apko bulate hai? Kya woh aap se poochte hai apki naraazgi ki wajah? Shri Krishna kehte hai, apno ke sath waqt ka pata nahi chalta kintu, waqt ke apno ka pata zaroor chal jaata hai.

Hum sabko pata hai ki isme dimaag sahi hai. Hum sabko yeh sabh pata hone ke baad bhi, hum dil ko chunte hai. Essa kyu hota hai? Kyuki shayad kisi ko jaane dena hi IMPOSSIBLE hai. Par main kahungi ki ek baar apne dimaag ki sunn kar dekho. Tumhe bhi ussi pyaar ka haqq hai. You are worth every risk. You are the most precious friend or partner anyone can have. You are there for people, but sometimes you need people too. You are there to listen everyone, but sometimes you need a listner too. You love endlessly, but you need that love too. 

CHOOSE YOURSELF, WHEN IT'S IMPOSSIBLE.